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Cell Phone Usage

My Wife decided this weekend that my cell phone usage is interfering with the time that I should spent with Her and doing things for her. My Wife thus decided on a new rule, namely that I may only use my cell phone, when I am at home, to answer calls.  I may not use any the phone for any other reason, unless i specifically ask for permission. Surprise surprise, when my Wife decided to do an inspection on my phone. I failed that test miserably and the consequences were severe. Complete obedience in a wife-led relationship is not a choice, it is a necessity - if you want to avoid  unpleasant consequences.

Groceries

It never ceases to amaze me how the small moments in the female led relationship make the difference. Today, my Wife went shopping. The arrangement is that  she will phone me when she leaves the mall and I would then be waiting in the garage when she comes back to offload the vehicle. For some or other reason I did not do this today. My mind was occupied by work, I guess. The next moment I heard the sound of the horn of the vehicle coming from the garage.  The fact that the horn was being pressed multiple times should have given me the heads up of what was to come. I rushed to the garage to find my Wife still sitting in the car and making various hand gestures at me. I rushed to open her door and got the dressing down of my life. The message hit home when She asked me whether I now expect Her to unpack the car. I obviously apologized profusely and moved to unpack the vehicle while She went inside.Inside I made Her some coffee and She sat at the kitchen table drinking her coffe...

Cell Phone

Every morning i wake up a half hour before my Wife. This is simply to do some chores while She is sleeping. I then make Her coffee and take it up to Her room and wake Her up with Her coffee. I used to have the routine then to get into bed with Her and reading the news on my phone. The other day my Wife announces that this irritates Her as i should rather spend that time talking to Her. Impromptu, my Wife announces that from that day forward there would be a ban against my cell phone in the bedroom. i am to leave it on the kitchen table downstairs at all times. This is what makes the wife led relationship so exciting - you as man is busy with something stupid that you don't even realize and the Wife has no problem to point out to you the error of your ways.

Cricket

Today, I spend some nice conversation time with my Wife in the kitchen after work. I poured us both a nice whiskey and we sat down at the kitchen table. After a couple of minutes Her phone rang and i could hear that it was one of Her regular friends on the other line. I stood up thinking i can go and watch some tv, while they are chatting. Turning my back to walk out of the kitchen my Wife hissed at my " Sit down ". When i did not react quickly enough She repeated " sit down " and pointed her finger down at the table. Her friend on the other line obviously heard this and burst out laughing - " yes " my Wife tells her " my husband thinks he can simply walk out of the kitchen without again asking to be excused " -  again laughter from the other lady. I hear this lady commenting that she does not know what we have going but it obviously works for us - this was priceless and my arousal was immediate.

Chaotic morning

This morning was in particular a chaotic morning. My Wife and I both left for work at the same time. As normal, I waited at the front door for my wife to pass in front of me. With my head bowed I realized my wife froze in the door way.   I looked up and found my wife's glare - not a pleased one. At that moment it struck me - I forgot to reversed my Wife's car from the garage. The rule is that my Wife will in the morning find her car outside the garage with the driver's door open and and the engine idling.  I apologized profusely and corrected my mistake immediately. I waited at the driver's door apologizing again and held the door for her to climb into the driver's seat. I closed the door and my wife opened the window slightly - not bothering to make eye contact my wife hissed "I am not impressed", closed the widow and drove off. 

Mischief

I am simply crazy about the way my wife can simply flick her fingers and point to the kitchen - my sign to go to the kitchen and see what mischief my daughter is up to.

Dinner

My Wife made us some lovely pasta tonight. I was called to the kitchen to come and clean after her. I was also instructed to bring the washing in from outside and fold it neatly for the maid to iron tomorrow when we are at work.